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                             Your Solution is






               Closer Than You Think






                                    Look within








                                                  By: Samuel Phillips










               on Facebook very recently. Even though it was a        a major one without having to ask
               curation of her personal experiences and moments       anyone for a dime for it), I was broke
               of deep vulnerability, I found her post to be very     broke. Savings were gone, and we

               profound, and in line with the perspective I wanted    could barely survive. I was down and
               to share with you here.                                out. Rent was due and then the house
                                                                      got marked for demolition.
               Below is her story. (Slightly edited for grammar)

               Between 2021-2023, I was doing averagely well. I       I could barely feed the house. There
               had a fairly good job, getting jobs with my fashion    were a lot of days that the only people
               house and everything in between. I had a sizable       eating were Jas and my mum. I was
               amount saved.                                          buying 1k gas every few days. I was

                                                                      giving my daughter water and sugar to
               Despite my mother’s health getting worse and the       drink instead of Milo. And she would
               bills all over the roof. We did fairly well.           take it with grace, smile, and hug me.
               Then Jas my daughter got ill, and everything           I had a godmother (Mama Edo) who

               went to hell from there. Between caring for her,       was sending food to us 2-3 times a
               for my mum, and keeping the house afloat I was         week. Sometimes Mummy would send
               overwhelmed and eventually resigned from my job.       soups in bowls, including Pap for my
               I couldn’t keep up, I was making so many mistakes      mum (That’s why I don’t joke with her

               and barely sleeping.                                   in this season of my life).
                                                                      And then we were about to be
               By the time I had paid for her surgery (which was      homeless.




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